I am an introvert.
I know I look like an extrovert. Because I have to be an extrovert for my various jobs, and I am good at my jobs. Also, I took on more extrovert behaviors when I took up with Adam, because someone had to be the liaison to the outside world.
But I am not a true extrovert, and I've been able to relax back into my natural state a bit more now that Judah's part of our family.
So just keep in mind that I am actually an introvert, and factor that into your How To Deal With Shadesong metrics.
Unrelated: am currently locked out of my Gmail, grr. And just when the guys had left and I was going to have time to respond the e-mail, too.