* Please use discretion when linking to my posts or comments to my posts on Facebook, as my Facebook is PG-13. My daughter and her friends, my father, my birthmom, et cetera read me on Facebook, and Elayna, for one, chooses not to read me on LJ on purpose. No one wants to see Mommy bein' raunchy. So keep public post links on Facebook PG and PG-13, please.
* Please do not post my locked posts or comments to my locked posts on Facebook or Twitter. I don't do many locked posts at all, but generally if I do it's for a reason, and generally that has to do with the privacy of others and my effort to create safe space. Please respect that. As Wil Wheaton says, don't be a dick.
Yes, I know that privacy online is an illusion; I am more aware of that than most people are, given my stalker-fraught history. Therefore I really don't post anything that I'm not fine with the world knowing - but! the world should get to decide whether it wants that info, hence the LJ/FB division.