It isn't so much what I say as how I say it. I can give the basic facts - your intelligence and wit, your total hotness, your sly smile, pertinent biographical info about your pastimes and career ambitions - but when I talk about you, my voice gets softer. An uncharacteristic bit of shyness creeps in. I grin. I have been known to blush. I could say the most stultifyingly boring things about you, but that pause before I begin would do me in every time.
what is your favourite(s) yarn colour, fibre, weight for knitting?
Color: Mostly jewel tones, anything very saturated with pigment.
Fiber: Anything soft. Merino, especially with some bamboo or silk. I have some pure silk I haven't decided what to do with. I can't abide acrylic or mohair.
Weight: Oh, anything from fingering to super-bulky! I haven't done anything in laceweight yet.
Is it possible to have a healthy relationship based in "unhealthy" desires? For example, a healthy S/M relationship from a desire to recreate an abusive situation.
Hm. I would need more detail. For example, if you were already in the healthy S&M relationship and decided to use that to reclaim your past trauma, yes; if you got into the relationship in order to recreate that and didn't have the underlying trust, I'd have a harder time seeing the healthy in that.
Poll is here!