How does one find love again?
By ceasing to look for it. (That's the only way it's ever happened for me.) Take some recovery time, get centered, be happy, and it'll come.
Why is a raven like a writing-desk?
Poe wrote on both.
If it takes six and half men six and a half hours to dig half a hole, how long does it take a monkey with a wooden leg to kick the seeds out of a dill pickle?
Where would you recommend looking online for a double dildo of the best quality? Are there any you can use without a harness, or would that be defying the laws of physics?
Depends what you're looking for. Let's check out Good Vibrations! I own the Feeldoe, which comes highly recommended, but I haven't actually tried it yet. I've been told it's better than the Nexus - and indeed, unlike the Nexus, it works sans harness, and has a vibrator, too!
Also, since you just mentioned coffee... How many cups per day?
Varies. At *least* two or three. Sometimes Adam and I go for a second pot in the late afternoon/evening. Fibro fatigue sucks. Caffeine rules.
How the heck do you balance husband, kid, and more then one boyfriend? Also what is like have all those different styles of sex?
* Scheduling is my superpower.
* Freakin' phenomenal.
Where'd you get your glasses? The "dirty librarian" ones?
I have dirty librarian glasses? *blink*
Those? Random eye doctor near my house.
Unanswered question - How did you and Adam meet? You've hinted that it was on your honeymoon but I'm always curious at that moment, the moment of intersection where two things intersect and everything changes. That's a bigger story, and deserves a post when I can think straight.