* It's not you, it's me. I've not had the time to keep up with the people I already have on my friendslist, so I've actually been paring down. And generally, for the past year-plus, I've been adding new people only at a rate of about one every month or so.
* You're not missing anything. Or hardly anything. Most of what I friendslocked in the past was day-job stuff; now that I no longer have a day job, I almost never post friends-only. And I've been schtupping people who are not media sluts, so the sexfilter is wilting from disuse.