Magical Truthsaying Bastard Shadesong (shadesong) wrote,
Magical Truthsaying Bastard Shadesong
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Lube

Okay, so I have a question, and this might be one of those "Shadesong is an alien" things.

During recent happy fun with a new person, said new person reached for lube right after reaching for the condom. I laughed and said "Oh, honey, you won't need that." But the fact that he defaulted to it - and I've seen people default to it before (but only the first time!) - got me wondering. In addition, I remembered an ex-boyfriend saying that prior to being with him, his OSO had never had sex without lube.

Now, personally, I have a very Pavlovian response to sexual situations. I see a hard cock, and honey, I'm ready. I am very ready. *drifts to happy place* *returns reluctantly* Seriously. So it took repeated experiences of this nature to make me really wonder - is that normal? Or is requiring artificial lubrication normal?

I know, I know - "define normal!" Seriously, though, I'm curious, so I'm taking this thoroughly unscientific poll. Note: This is for vaginal sex only. I do not have a self-lubricating ass, and I am pretty sure I don't know anyone who does. So.


I'm female, and I require lube for vaginal sex...

Never
71(45.5%)
0%-25% of the time
52(33.3%)
25%-50% of the time
10(6.4%)
50%-75% of the time
6(3.8%)
75%-100% of the time
8(5.1%)
Always
9(5.8%)

I have sex with females, and I find that they require lube...

Never
28(31.1%)
0%-25% of the time
40(44.4%)
25%-50% of the time
13(14.4%)
50%-75% of the time
5(5.6%)
75%-100% of the time
3(3.3%)
Always
1(1.1%)

Since we're here, tell me a secret/ask me a question.



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