Magical Truthsaying Bastard Shadesong (shadesong) wrote,
Magical Truthsaying Bastard Shadesong
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Another ten answers!

But aren't you the head cool kid who starts all this? What do you want to be when you grow up?
Hee! Generally. But this time around, slipjig and velvetsteel started it.

And I don't want to grow up. :P

How did you and Adam know you were Meant To Be, and why did it take years to figure it out?
Well... we clicked via e-mail as well as any two people can. And he became my best friend that way. But we didn't meet in person for another two years-ish.

You know how sometimes when you meet someone, everything else falls away, and you two are the only people in the room?

Yeah.

The problem was... I was on my honeymoon at the time...

We honestly didn't think of it as that kind of love at first - just as an affirmation of how close we'd become online. A brother-and-sisterish thing. And he started visiting me in Florida frequently, and we grew closer, and we had to admit that there was a lot more there...

...but, y'know. I was married. And not poly. Well, the ex had agreed to poly at the time, but it turned out, a bit late, that all he wanted was threesomes, and gods forbid any emotion should be involved. And Adam wasn't poly. Anyway.

So. All sorts of tangled-up-ed-ness. I was miserable in my marriage for a number of reasons, but I was trying; Adam's a man of honor, and so we did nothing...

My ex-husband hitting me was in that way a blessing.

Yep. The ex decked me. I took off out of the house like a bat out of hell - took Elayna to my parents' house. (Yes, she'd been in the room. No, he never hurt her; he'd be dead now if he had.)

And my ex called Adam.

We still don't now why he did this. For support? To attempt to raise a defense? What possesses a "man" to call his wife's best friend to tell him that he hit the wife? I don't know.

But it made Adam realize that this fucker did not deserve me.

And it snapped me out of it.

So my ex and I separated. And I moved up to Atlanta.

And that's why it took so long. *curtsey*



What's your superpower?
Impeccable timing.

What is your favorite toy?
My stuffed penguin. His name is Sigmund. I sleep with him, and I make him peck people. I also like my beanie-baby squid, particularly when kires plays with him and uses that squeaky voice: "I am a little Elder God..."

If you mean sex toy? My bunny-rabbit-style vibrator.

Do you feel that many people find your relationship with your men confusing?
I don't know! Do they? Do you guys? I find it pretty straightforward - but then, I'm living it.

Do you ever think about how I'd fuck you?
*laugh* Actually, I almost e-mailed you the other day.

is there an ETA on the (thankyousomuch!) copies of SSA #6 ?? (Thankyouthankyouthankyou)
Still waiting to hear from my editor. Getting antsy, dammit! I'll let you know soon as I hear from him.

Are you happy with your life?
Yeah. Parts could be better, but the wheels are in motion to improve those parts. Overall, I'm a lucky girl, I feel. :)

what should I do?
Have some ice cream.

what's your favorite song of the moment?
I am still listening obsessively to that Beastie Boys/Dandy Warhols mashup of "Intergalactic Planetary" and the Veronica Mars theme song.


Ask me more! :)
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