Hee! Generally. But this time around, slipjig and velvetsteel started it.
And I don't want to grow up. :P
How did you and Adam know you were Meant To Be, and why did it take years to figure it out?
Well... we clicked via e-mail as well as any two people can. And he became my best friend that way. But we didn't meet in person for another two years-ish.
You know how sometimes when you meet someone, everything else falls away, and you two are the only people in the room?
The problem was... I was on my honeymoon at the time...
We honestly didn't think of it as that kind of love at first - just as an affirmation of how close we'd become online. A brother-and-sisterish thing. And he started visiting me in Florida frequently, and we grew closer, and we had to admit that there was a lot more there...
...but, y'know. I was married. And not poly. Well, the ex had agreed to poly at the time, but it turned out, a bit late, that all he wanted was threesomes, and gods forbid any emotion should be involved. And Adam wasn't poly. Anyway.
So. All sorts of tangled-up-ed-ness. I was miserable in my marriage for a number of reasons, but I was trying; Adam's a man of honor, and so we did nothing...
My ex-husband hitting me was in that way a blessing.
Yep. The ex decked me. I took off out of the house like a bat out of hell - took Elayna to my parents' house. (Yes, she'd been in the room. No, he never hurt her; he'd be dead now if he had.)
And my ex called Adam.
We still don't now why he did this. For support? To attempt to raise a defense? What possesses a "man" to call his wife's best friend to tell him that he hit the wife? I don't know.
But it made Adam realize that this fucker did not deserve me.
And it snapped me out of it.
So my ex and I separated. And I moved up to Atlanta.
And that's why it took so long. *curtsey*
What's your superpower?
What is your favorite toy?
My stuffed penguin. His name is Sigmund. I sleep with him, and I make him peck people. I also like my beanie-baby squid, particularly when kires plays with him and uses that squeaky voice: "I am a little Elder God..."
If you mean sex toy? My bunny-rabbit-style vibrator.
Do you feel that many people find your relationship with your men confusing?
I don't know! Do they? Do you guys? I find it pretty straightforward - but then, I'm living it.
Do you ever think about how I'd fuck you?
*laugh* Actually, I almost e-mailed you the other day.
is there an ETA on the (thankyousomuch!) copies of SSA #6 ?? (Thankyouthankyouthankyou)
Still waiting to hear from my editor. Getting antsy, dammit! I'll let you know soon as I hear from him.
Are you happy with your life?
Yeah. Parts could be better, but the wheels are in motion to improve those parts. Overall, I'm a lucky girl, I feel. :)
what should I do?
Have some ice cream.
what's your favorite song of the moment?
I am still listening obsessively to that Beastie Boys/Dandy Warhols mashup of "Intergalactic Planetary" and the Veronica Mars theme song.
Ask me more! :)