You do not have to be beholden to people in this manner. Particularly when you no longer care that much about the people or the gift. (examples: snowglobe, candles. no one on my friendslist.)
Reminder to self: Write entries about the following two things that are possibly unusually strong in your head:
Trust me, these things deserve to be in capitals, the way they are in my head, and it occurs to me that other people are probably not as medieval and Honor-Bound regarding them as I am. Worth exploring.
Right now, though? I need to lie down and rest. Made a lot of headway in Miss Kid's room, and a bit in my space, and my body has given out.