Our minds and hearts know each other better than our bodies do, is what I'm saying.
Now, our bodies know each other just fine, mind you; our bodies get along very well indeed. Mmmm.... *happy place* :) But for deeper D/s stuff, we're sometimes stop-and-start, just because we're still learning each other's nonverbals - so we haven't disappeared into it much yet. At least not as much as we're going to.
With some relationships involving kink, it's mainly a matter of establishing commonality. We both like X, Y, and Z? Okay! There's our plateau.
docorion and I have the pretty strong feeling that there will be no plateau. That this is a long-journey sort of thing.
I want to be living in Boston already so we can start catching up.