Magical Truthsaying Bastard Shadesong (shadesong) wrote,
Magical Truthsaying Bastard Shadesong
shadesong

LDR-ness

The problem with an emotionally intense, heavy-communication LDR is that it creates a lag effect between brain and body.

Our minds and hearts know each other better than our bodies do, is what I'm saying.

Now, our bodies know each other just fine, mind you; our bodies get along very well indeed. Mmmm.... *happy place* :) But for deeper D/s stuff, we're sometimes stop-and-start, just because we're still learning each other's nonverbals - so we haven't disappeared into it much yet. At least not as much as we're going to.

With some relationships involving kink, it's mainly a matter of establishing commonality. We both like X, Y, and Z? Okay! There's our plateau.

docorion and I have the pretty strong feeling that there will be no plateau. That this is a long-journey sort of thing.

I want to be living in Boston already so we can start catching up.
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