Would you like your spouse to be both smarter and more attractive than you?
I think that yendi and I are pretty equivalent there. I don't know if I could deal with a spouse who was significantly smarter than me; my intelligence is a major point of pride. volta's way hotter than I am, but I don't hold stock in my physical appearance.
Can best friends become lovers? Can lovers stay best friends?
Yep. I'm marrying mine.
How would you react if you were to learn that your mate had had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other?
I'd ask if he wanted to do it again. And if I could watch.
Describe a perfect romantic evening.
Pass; I'm not romantic...
How many different sexual partners have you had in your life? Would you prefer to have had more or less?
Heh. Um. Well.
Less. I could definitely have done with less.
Do you have a favorite sexual fantasy? Would you like to have it fulfilled?
The only one I have that's never been fulfilled is a mfm threesome where the guys play with each other as well as with me. And, um, the other thing.
How do you know when you're in love?
*waves hands* You just DO.
If the person you were engaged to marry had an accident and became a paraplegic, would you go through with the marriage, or back out of it?
Go through with it. Duh.
What is the biggest lie you've ever told?
I'll have to think about this...
If you could alter one physical characteristic of your mate, what would you change?
Geez. Both of my guys have aggravating health problems. Can't I just wish for those problems to not exist?
If you could be married anywhere in the world, where would the wedding take place?
Woods Hole, MA.
If you could be married to someone famous from the past who is no longer alive, who would you like it to be?
If you could have a romance with any fictional character, who would it be?
What's the most romantic movie you ever saw?
I don't think in these terms...
If you could be the lover of any person alive other than your current lover, who would you pick?
If you could star in a love scene with any living actor or actress, who would you want to act with, and where would you want it filmed?
Silly question, no answer.
If you could teach your mate to do one thing, what would it be?
I'd teach yendi to drive. I don't know yet what I'd want to teach volta.
If you could eliminate one habit your mate has, what would you have them stop doing?
yendi: not cleaning up after himself.
volta: living in Boston.
If you had to choose someone to sleep with your mate, who would you pick?
Whoever they want! Barring psychos.
If you had to marry someone that you presently know unromantically, and spend the rest of your life as their spouse, who would you choose?
If you could only have sex once more in your life, when would you do it, with whom, and where?
If you had to sleep with someone you despise in exchange for one thing, what is it you would demand?
Silly questions, no answer.
If you wanted to look very sexy, how would you dress?
Like in the icon, baby - man's white dress shirt. Alternatively, a tank top and jeans... the more at ease I am, the sexier I feel.
If your mate were having an affair would you want to know about it?
If your spouse wanted to be with someone else JUST ONCE and would never be unfaithful again, would you let them do it?
Moot points; I'm poly.
On an airplane you are talking pleasantly to a person of average appearance. Unexpectedly, the person offers you $10,000 for one night of sex. Knowing there is no danger and that payment is certain, would you accept the offer?
My instinct is to say no. It just feels psychologically unsafe. Sure, I'd have $10K, but then I'd feel like a whore for the rest of my life.
What is the most romantic present anyone has ever given you?
What is the most romantic song or music you've ever heard?
I don't do romance... I'll try to figure it out later.
If you could have changed one thing about your first sexual experience, what would it be?
My first willing sexual experience was with my brand-new husband. I'd've wished that he knew what the hell he was doing.
Would you be content with a marriage of the highest quality in all respects but one - it completely lacked sex?
If it was a poly marriage, yes. I couldn't give up sex for my entire life. But I could be married to someone without sex, as long as I was able to get my physical needs met as well.