I'm a victim of my own popularity.
LJ stops comparison-matching at 500 friends. So a big chunk of my friends-of list and communities list that *ought* to be bolded, isn't. And won't be.
And when you click on "view friends", instead of a list of friends, it gives me the directory thingie with the pictures of y'all. Which is cute, but makes it impossible to use any friends/friends-of comparison technique.
Why do they have to make LJ so difficult as you get more friends? It seems like the more you use LJ, the more they punish you for it.