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Informal sex-type survey borne of me talking to guys about sex #183 
10th-Mar-2010 10:17 pm
Hearth
So swashbucklr and I were talking about things people say in bed, and he noted that he will find himself saying "hi". Generally at the "oh, look, here we are both naked" stage.

I do this too! It tends to make people laugh.

So we were wondering - do you do this? Just sometimes look up or look down and grin and say "hi"?
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11th-Mar-2010 03:21 am (UTC)
Me too. :)
11th-Mar-2010 03:20 am (UTC)
I do believe you know the answer to this one already.
11th-Mar-2010 03:21 am (UTC)
:)
11th-Mar-2010 03:21 am (UTC)
Yeah, sometimes. Usually in a newish relationship.
11th-Mar-2010 03:26 am (UTC)
Sometimes I do it without words, I look up and do this double-take of "Oh, there you are". Or I look down, as the occasion demands...

But yeah, saying "hi" again can help step past that sometimes awkward first moment of nakedness, or an interruption, etc. You giggle, the tension eases a bit, and the sex becomes awesome fun all over again.
11th-Mar-2010 03:29 am (UTC)
oh definitely yes - but...it depends on who I'm with and how long we've been together.
11th-Mar-2010 03:29 am (UTC)
Get your best "Guido" accent on:

"How you doin'?"
11th-Mar-2010 03:30 am (UTC)
I have done this too!
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11th-Mar-2010 03:32 am (UTC)
Yeah, sometimes, with new people. Or any number of other shy blushy things meant to make people laugh and/or find other ways to relax me.
11th-Mar-2010 03:34 am (UTC)
Nope. I don't think I ever have.
11th-Mar-2010 03:43 am (UTC)
Icon love, BTW.
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11th-Mar-2010 03:39 am (UTC)
Oh totally. Or a murmured "hellllooooo" post-coitus during sleepy snuggles. For me its mostly a function of recognizing a moment that deserves some acknowledgement without really having much to say.
11th-Mar-2010 03:44 am (UTC)
Definitely!
11th-Mar-2010 03:45 am (UTC)
Yup, done that. Sometimes before, usually after :)
11th-Mar-2010 03:47 am (UTC)
I usually snap my fingers and say 'The Aristocrats!'
11th-Mar-2010 03:48 am (UTC)
You win one (1) internet.
11th-Mar-2010 03:48 am (UTC)
Oh yes, its a good fun ice breaker that gets you past that awkward 'yes, these are our uglies, and we are going to make funny noises with them' stage. :)
11th-Mar-2010 03:52 am (UTC)
Hi.
11th-Mar-2010 03:55 am (UTC)
My girlfriend does that a lot. Me, not so much. But when she gets silly I feel compelled to go into straight man mode (pun intended).
11th-Mar-2010 03:55 am (UTC)
Every now and again, when I'm feeling so overwhelmed and lucky, I sort of do this 'oh look, it's you, and we're naked' thing. Sometimes there is a ''hi'' involved.
11th-Mar-2010 03:57 am (UTC)
Indeed I do. :)
11th-Mar-2010 04:02 am (UTC)
Yes! all the time
11th-Mar-2010 04:05 am (UTC)
I tend to go for the appreciative look instead.
11th-Mar-2010 04:11 am (UTC)
Yup, me and The Boy do this.
11th-Mar-2010 04:14 am (UTC)
Now I want to say "Hi."** And I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants to say that.



** Maybe this should have an "If you know what I mean" after it...
11th-Mar-2010 04:15 am (UTC)
This is funny! I do say "Hi."
11th-Mar-2010 04:19 am (UTC)
Well, kind of a "Hello, there" sometimes, in a "what have we here?" sort of way. :-)
11th-Mar-2010 04:33 am (UTC)
Don't sing Oogie Boogie: "Well, well, well, what have we here? Sandy Claws, huh? Oooooo, I'm real scared." WRECKS the mood.
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